For families navigating today’s admissions process, the noise can feel overwhelming. Some say tests don’t matter. Others insist on resume-stuffing extracurriculars. Essays spark endless debate. And few stop to consider opportunities outside the U.S.
But the truth is simpler: students who thrive approach admissions with clarity, intentionality, and authenticity. Let’s cut through the noise and focus on three areas that matter most.
1. Test Prep Takes Longer Than You Think
Standardized tests are not the enemy—but they are sneaky hard. Many students assume they can cram for the SAT or ACT in three months. The reality? Strong results typically require 8–12+ months of consistent preparation.
That doesn’t mean daily grind. It means building mastery over time:
- Identifying weak spots early
- Practicing under timed conditions
- Building pacing and confidence through repetition
The real goal of tutoring isn’t to push harder—it’s to depressurize the process. Students who feel prepared perform better because they’re calmer and more confident.
Takeaway for families: Plan ahead. Start earlier than feels necessary. Avoid “miracle” promises of quick fixes.
2. Authentic Essays Win Every Time
What do admissions officers want to see in a personal statement? Not perfection. Not parental polish. Authenticity.
They read thousands of essays. They can spot instantly when the voice belongs to a teenager—or when it’s been written by a parent, consultant, or AI.
Strong essays:
- Sound like the student, at their best
- Show growth—how challenges shaped maturity and perspective
- Fill gaps in the application by highlighting qualities not visible in transcripts or activities
Authenticity takes time. Each draft should sound more like you, not less. Forced “trauma narratives” or overly ornate vocabulary backfires. A simple story, told honestly, lands strongest.
3. Don’t Overlook Global Options
Too few U.S. students consider universities abroad, while many international students underestimate the breadth of choices in the U.S.
UK & Europe:
- UCAS applications are streamlined: one statement, up to five schools.
- Oxbridge requires extra preparation—rigorous interviews that test how you think on the spot.
U.S. system:
- Offers unparalleled breadth: liberal arts, research universities, urban and rural campuses.
- Admissions officers look beyond grades; they seek students ready to thrive in diverse, challenging settings.
The opportunity: Thinking globally opens doors. The right fit may not be the school you’ve heard of—it may be the one that aligns with your strengths, goals, and learning style.
Final Word
Admissions isn’t about hacks or shortcuts. It’s about preparation, authenticity, and openness to opportunity.
- Start test prep early to build confidence.
- Write essays that sound like you, not anyone else.
- Think globally—the best-fit school may not be the obvious one.
For deeper insights, listen to my conversation with Matthew Demmer of Advantage Testing on the Admittedly Podcast.
Learn more about how Admittedly partners with Advantage Testing at admittedly.co/programs.
